By Ari Sibrey-Hughes

Dear Ari,

Today will be a hard day. Reading those words, “We regret to inform you that you did not pass the North Carolina Bar Exam,” will be one of the toughest times you will go through. I know it seems unfair, reflecting back to all the time you spent studying, reading, writing, and taking practice exams, all to fail by three points! I know you feel like burying your head under the covers and never coming up again. The disappointment you feel about yourself in this moment makes you want to give up on your dream of becoming a lawyer. But you will persevere, become confident in yourself, take the exam again and pass! That will be one of the greatest moments of your life. You will barely keep the news to yourself, and everyone will be so proud of you. You will be sworn in to become a lawyer, just like your dad did many years ago. Although you can’t call and share the news with him, you know he is smiling (okay, beaming) down with joy and pride at your accomplishment.

So what happens next, you ask? You will find your first job in the family law field. It has its challenges, but you are determined to put your all into the work and to help your clients. Then, one day, out of the blue, your boss will come into your office and say, “I think you’re a great person, but you just don’t get it. I am going to have to let you go.” Those words will catch you off guard. You put your heart into your work and did your best. This event will rock you and make you wonder if you aren’t good enough to even practice law. It will make you feel as if the many years and tears you’ve expended truly were for naught. Let me tell you, no, they were not. You will take this opportunity to reset, think about who you are and consider the impact you want to have on this profession. Stay tuned because it gets so much better.

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By Maya Davis

Last month the New Lawyers in Practice Committee hosted a dynamic and honest conversation centered on growth, transitions, and the tough decisions that shape a legal career. Whether you’re a new associate figuring out your place in a firm or a seasoned attorney contemplating a major move, the event offered insights for all.

This panel focused on the challenges of navigating the early years of your legal career – how do you know when to stay, when to advocate for yourself, or when to move on?

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By Collins Saint 

If you didn’t know Cheslie Kryst, I wish you had.

She was the kind of person you remember long after she leaves the room: sharp, radiant, grounded in purpose.

Cheslie was compassion in action.

She was brilliance without ego.

She was joy, justice, and power, all in one.

I first met Cheslie when we were student ambassadors at Wake Forest University School of Law. I was new and nervous; she was poised and practiced. With one luminous smile and a warm hand on mine, she made me feel like I belonged. That was her gift. She had presence, yes, but more importantly, she left you feeling like you were the most important person in the world. She made people feel seen, truly seen, without ever shrinking herself to do it.

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By Tiqeece Brown and Emily Carico

The Young Lawyers Division is excited to announce a game-changing event: the Inaugural First Gen Summit! This summit is more than just a gathering — it’s an opportunity to connect, grow, and empower yourself in your personal and professional journey.

As a first-generation law student or young lawyer, you may have faced challenges that other students haven’t experienced. From navigating law school without a family road map to stepping into the legal profession without a direct support system, you may have had a unique journey. But you’re not alone. This summit is specifically designed to help you overcome these hurdles and build the confidence you need to thrive in your legal career.

What Can You Expect at the First Gen Summit?

At the First Gen Summit, we’ll dive into a range of important topics that will help you not only survive but thrive in the legal world:

• Overcoming Imposter Syndrome: It’s common to feel like you don’t belong, especially when you’re a trailblazer in your family or community. Our sessions will provide strategies to tackle imposter syndrome head-on and remind you that you do belong in the legal field.
• Managing Stress: The legal profession can be demanding, and balancing a career with personal well-being is often a challenge. Learn effective stress-management techniques that you can apply to your daily routine.
• Building Financial Wellness: Financial literacy is key to success, both personally and professionally. Get practical advice on budgeting, student loans, saving, and investing, tailored specifically for young professionals.
• Using Social Media for Business Growth: In today’s digital world, building a professional presence online can open doors and attract opportunities. Learn how to leverage social media to enhance your career and grow your legal practice.

Fun and Meaningful Team-Building Activities

The summit isn’t all about sitting in seminars. We’ve included engaging team-building activities that will help you connect with your peers in a meaningful way. Whether you’re working through challenges together or just having fun, these activities will leave you feeling more connected and supported.

Inspiring Speakers Who Understand Your Journey

You’ll hear from a lineup of inspiring speakers who have walked the path you’re on. These thought leaders, mentors, and successful legal professionals will share their stories, insights and advice to empower you to take charge of your future.

Who Should Attend?

The First Gen Summit is perfect for first-generation law students, young lawyers, and anyone interested in personal and professional growth. If you’re navigating the complexities of being a first gen in the legal world, this event is tailored for you. We’re here to provide you with the tools, resources, and support you need to succeed. Whether you’re just starting law school or already practicing, the summit offers invaluable insights that will help you build the skills to flourish.

Leave Feeling Connected, Confident, and Ready to Take on the World

By the end of the summit, you’ll have the knowledge and confidence to take on whatever comes next. You’ll leave feeling more connected to your peers, empowered by the tools you’ve gained, and inspired by the stories and advice shared by our amazing speakers.

Don’t miss out on this incredible opportunity to invest in yourself and your future. Join us at the Inaugural First Gen Summit — we can’t wait to see you there!

Who: First Generation Law Students | Young Lawyers | Anyone interested in professional and personal growth.

What: First Generation Summit

Where: Camp Weaver, 4924 Tapawingo Trail | Greensboro

When: April 11, 2025 | 9 a.m. to 3 p.m.

Why: You need tools to succeed and navigate the complexities of being a first-generation law student.

Register here.

CO-Chairs: Emily Carico and Tiqeece Brown

 

By Mary Beth Davis, Matt Meinel and Tae Storr

Do you have time to grab a cup of coffee? Instead of taking this one to-go, how about spending thirty meaningful minutes with a future lawyer?

A half hour of your time is all we need to make this program a success! We are seeking attorney volunteers to connect with a law student and pass on the valuable insights you have about succeeding in law school and entering the practice of law. If you would like to volunteer, please fill out this attorney sign-up form (law students can sign up with this student sign-up form). If you have signed up during a previous GaC session, you will need to sign up again.

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