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Join the Pro Bono team in some fun activities this bar year. Jay Jerkins and I, co-chairs of the Pro Bono section, want to welcome you to a new bar year with new opportunities for pro bono work.
Why is pro bono important? The NC State Bar asks each lawyer to commit to providing 50 hours of legal services to those who are unable to pay, according to Rule 6.1, which states in further detail: every lawyer should
“(a) provide a substantial majority of the (50) hours of legal services without fee or expectation of fee to:
(1) persons of limited means;
(2) charitable, religious, civic, community, governmental and educational organizations in matters that are designed primarily to address the needs of persons of limited means; or
(3) individuals, groups or organizations seeking to secure or protect civil rights, civil liberties or public rights, or charitable, religious, civic, community, governmental and
educational organizations in matters in furtherance of their organizational purposes, where the payment of standard legal fees would significantly deplete the organization’s economic resources or would otherwise be inappropriate; Read more
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Who doesn’t want to escape to the mountains in October?
With breathtaking views, vibrant fall colors, and a meeting and social venue at one of Asheville’s premier hotels, you’ll experience a CLE designed to inspire.
🔥 Inside the Intensive CLE
This year’s Intensive CLE, co-planned by Lori Vitale, Kimberly Bryan, and Shelby Benton, promises to be one of the most interactive and dynamic programs we’ve ever offered. The CLE will take place Thursday through Friday, October 23-24, 2025.
We’re bringing together cutting-edge topics (for example, hear from NIL attorneys on child moneymakers and explore how name, image, likeness, and brand impact family law cases), nationally recognized expert speakers, and the kind of candid discussions that only happen when the cameras are off.
And by choosing to be in Asheville this fall, we’re not just investing in our professional growth—we’re also showing up for a community that still needs our support.
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It’s that time of year again, time for foliage, football, tailgating, and of course, the Family Law Fall Program. This year’s program will take place in Winston-Salem, home of the Wake Forest Demon Deacons, Reynolds America, Krispy Kreme, and Texas Pete. Winston-Salem is also a great place to find fantastic restaurants, unique bars, historic sites and local art, all within walking distance of our host hotel. As a resident of Winston-Salem for 17 years (when did that happen), I write to personally invite you to join us on September 12, 2025, to explore the city, to engage in interesting and insightful CLE topics, and to network and catch up with new and old friends.
We all know the practice of family law can be daunting. I often find myself describing days in court, mediations, or depositions as a slog: fraught with disgruntled parties, contentious opposing counsel, and too much information to be addressed in too little time. And while a positive outcome or a satisfied client certainly goes a long way toward making it all worthwhile, I find the things that keep me engaged are the friendships and camaraderie I have built along the way. I am grateful for the groups of colleagues both close by and across the state who can relate, who can share war stories, who provide insight and suggestions, and who understand the unique challenges of this work. Those relationships, for me, have been forged at annual meetings, fall programs, and intensive seminars. And those relationships – fashioned from that time spent outside of cases and courtrooms with colleagues – make the difficult and adversarial work we do that much more palatable. For those reasons, I encourage you and your colleagues to attend the Family Law Fall Program, in person, in Winston-Salem.
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Welcome to a new bar year! It is an honor and a privilege to serve as your chair for the upcoming term. I look forward to building on the strong foundation laid by those who came before me and to working alongside all of you as we continue to support excellence in family law practice across our state.
This year, I’m excited to introduce a new initiative: regularly scheduled “lunch & learns” focused on a range of family law topics. These informal, informative sessions will offer opportunities for continuing education, discussion, and community building among our members. I hope these gatherings will become a valuable and accessible resource for all of us, no matter where we are in our practice or our careers.
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When you are just beginning in your legal career, drafting a prenuptial agreement for a client may seem like a relatively easy task. Your firm may already have templates or drafts with boilerplate language to pull from, and your client may be happy with a cut-and-paste job. Clients usually do not understand the nuances within contract law, and therefore may not be aware that not all prenups are enforceable. The strength of a prenup is only tested when one party seeks to enforce the agreement. Even a facially valid prenup can be attacked on the basis of enforceability. This article will discuss several common defenses to enforceability, and how to draft a prenuptial agreement that not only contemplates these defenses but protects against them.
North Carolina Law makes it relatively easy for couples to enter into a prenuptial agreement. Almost no formalities are required. In fact, a prenuptial agreement does not require consideration to be binding.[1] North Carolina requires only that the prenup be in writing and signed by both parties,[2] and that both parties possess the capacity to enter a contract[3] and are the age of majority.[4]
While it may seem easy to draft a prenup, not all premarital agreements are created equally. Drafting a watertight prenup first requires knowing where to look for leaks. A solid understanding of common defenses against enforceability will aid in drafting a prenup that will hold up, even when challenged. This article addresses four major ways to attack the enforceability of a prenup: 1) the agreement was not entered voluntarily; 2) the agreement is unconscionable; 3) the agreement violates public Policy; and 4) inadequate financial disclosures.
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In the complex world of family law, the stakes can be incredibly high, particularly when it comes to the termination of parental rights. The recent unpublished opinion of In Re: B.L.K., decided by Judge Arrowood in Moore County on September 17, 2024, highlights the profound implications of parental involvement — or lack thereof. Here, the father appealed the termination of his parental rights, questioning whether the trial court had sufficient evidence to support (1) willful abandonment under N.C.G.S. § 7B-1111(a)(7) and (2) termination under N.C.G.S. § 7B-1111(a)(5). The Court of Appeals focused solely on the first issue, noting that if any statutory ground in § 7B-1111(a) is supported by competent evidence, the remaining grounds need not be addressed.
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Jay Jerkins and I, co-chairs of the Pro Bono section, want to welcome you to a new bar year with new opportunities for pro bono work. Why is pro bono important? The North Carolina State Bar asks each lawyer to commit to providing 50 hours of legal services to those who are unable to pay, according to Rule 6.1, which states in further detail: every lawyer should
“(a) provide a substantial majority of the (50) hours of legal services without fee or expectation of fee to:
(1) persons of limited means;
(2) charitable, religious, civic, community, governmental and educational organizations in matters that are designed primarily to address the needs of persons of limited means; or
(3) individuals, groups or organizations seeking to secure or protect civil rights, civil liberties or public rights, or charitable, religious, civic, community, governmental and educational organizations in matters in furtherance of their organizational purposes, where the payment of standard legal fees would significantly deplete the organization’s economic resources or would be otherwise inappropriate;
(b) provide any additional services through:
(1) the delivery of legal services described in paragraph (a) at a substantially reduced fee; or
(2) participation in activities for improving the law, the legal system or the legal profession.
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As your new Chairperson of the Family Law Section, it is my distinct pleasure to unveil an initiative that is close to my heart and crucial to our collective well-being. I am calling it the Family Law Attorney Wellness (FLAW) initiative.
In our demanding field, we are often so focused on the needs of our clients that we may neglect our own health and well-being. This is a FLAW. The intense emotional and intellectual demands of family law can lead to significant stress, burnout, addiction, and other mental health challenges. This is a FLAW. According to a study by the American Bar Association, 28% of practicing attorneys struggle with depression and more than 50% report having experienced burnout. This is a FLAW. It is time that we acknowledge and address these issues head-on, fostering a culture that supports the well-being of every attorney in our community. We are going to reclaim the FLAW and make it work for us.
Attorney Coleman Cowan, former Emmy award-winning 60 Minutes producer, and successful personal injury litigator, also just became a Senior Lecturing Fellow at Duke University School of Law. He is a graduate of the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill (undergrad) and Wake Forest University School of Law who went on to get a master’s degree in journalism from Columbia University in New York City.
Coleman Cowan
His graduate thesis was his investigative journalism into DNA testing on rape kits at the NYPD, and ultimately launched his career at 60 Minutes. Attorney Cowan will be our captivating guest lecturer for the Lunch Program at the Fall CLE, presenting on the topic: “To Live, Not Exist: What Our Experiences Can Teach Us about Managing Stress and Anxiety.”
You can attend this CLE in person at the Marriott Greensboro Downtown or via webcast.
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